Right to Refuse

Right now, I'm with my dad and his side of the family. We're having an early Mother's Day celebration for my Nana (grandmother on my Dad's side) and stepmother. Someone told my dad about my plans on Friday before I did, so he got upset and told me that I 'wasn't bailing on my family this time'. He acts like I'm some horrible person for making plans for anything. He never told me anything about this weekend! He can't keep doing this. I hate going over there anyway. But when no one tells me what's going on, I say I have a right to refuse to go.
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